Some thoughts on hitting on girls

I’m on the verge of being able to really articulate what I’m trying to say here, but it’s not quite right, so bare with me as I dump some thoughts I’ve been having specifically about hitting on girls. Mystery created some really good stuff, but he also really fucked a lot of people (myself included) up with the idea of being indirect. And to be clear I don’t think he did it intentionally, or even that being indirect NEVER works. The reason the whole indirect thing fucked people up was that people equated being indirect with OPENING with an indirect opener.

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